5 Ways to Help Kids Navigate a Relocation
As a mom, a child of multiple (failed) relocations, and someone who’s committed to helping people during their adventure to a new place, I know firsthand how much moving impacts kids. Helping children feel grounded in a new place isn’t just about logistics.. it’s deeply human.
Build Excitement Early
Explore books, maps, or guides about the new city together. Request local magazines or visitor guides to start conversations and spark curiosity. Consuming these resources together will help this feel like an adventure instead of a reassignment.
2. Prioritize Connection
Enroll kids in local summer or sports camps right away so they can meet peers and start forming bonds even before school starts. Socialization cannot be understated, you need “your people” for anywhere to begin to feel like home.
3. Involve Them in School Selection
Giving kids a voice in their new school builds ownership and pride in the transition. Take them on the tours, get their feedback, and help them feel a part of the decision instead of being thrust into another of someone else's decision.
4. Create Local Rituals
Schedule intentional outings to hometown hotspots like ball games, aquariums, beaches, or mom & pop ice cream shops to help your child connect with their new environment. The more they feel like a local in their new town, the better.
5. Ask What Home Means to Them
Oftentimes as parents, we assume we know what our children need, however, children are wise and the simple question of "what is this home missing for you" may reveal surprising responses. Keep the conversation open with your kids & check-in often.
When families, and especially children, feel rooted in their community, the entire relocation becomes a win.
